Lawyers are bad.
Clients are treated unfairly.
Or at least, that’s the version everyone seems to agree on.
Click to get insights, real-world experience and candid conversations around the challenges shaping modern law.
Lawyers are bad.
Clients are treated unfairly.
Or at least, that’s the version everyone seems to agree on.
Click below to get insights, real-world experience and candid conversations around the challenges shaping modern law.
The jokes are easy. The assumptions are everywhere.
How to get lawyers to smile?
Just say “fees”!
How much are your rates?
$250 for three questions.
Isn’t that awfully steep?
Yes.
And what was your third question?
What’s harder is understanding what’s actually happening underneath them.
Do these jokes reflect a reality or preferred vision of reality?
Lawyers and clients, both, deserve better: improved connection, closer partnership, enhanced rapport and greater harmony. They both work too hard, and both have a right to more because they are worthy of more.
This is not a place for legal advice.
It’s a place to look more closely at what happens between lawyers and the people they represent — through communication, expectations and professional judgment.
In her blogs and newsletters, Simina will examine the disconnects, expectations and pressures affecting both lawyers and clients. Submit your question(s) below!
What is the TRUTH?
Are all lawyers BAD?
Are all clients treated UNFAIRLY?
The short answer is unequivocally NO.
The ‘real’ truth is often misunderstood, manipulated and constantly re-interpreted to fit one’s own justification for where or who they are.
Lawyers are working under constant pressure. Clients are investing time, money and trust in pursuit of justice. And still, the outcome isn’t always what either expected. So, what’s actually going on here?
Looking more closely at the role lawyers and clients play in each other’s lives is a first step toward understanding what is actually happening between them.
Why do clients so often feel uneasy about legal fees?
Why are lawyers operating in a near constant state of pressure?
The “Ask Simina” Newsletter
Simina’s newsletter observes and comments on what’s really happening throughout the legal process. Where expectations diverge, perception takes hold and responsibility is frequently misconstrued. Each issue breaks down how expectations and perception influence how outcomes are understood.
Legal disclaimer: We thank you for suggesting topics that you find relevant and which will be reviewed as part of our efforts to write and speak about the issues that lawyers and clients are facing day to day. We do not provide legal representation or legal advice to anyone. Visitors understand that by contacting us or submitting this form or using this website there is no attorney client relationship. This is advertisement material. The information you obtain on this website, videos, newsletters, other communications, or other advertising materials is not nor is it intended to be legal advice.
Suggestions, questions, or feedback should not be sent as a request for legal advice because Simina will not provide any legal advice. Please do not send confidential or time-sensitive information as such communications do not establish an attorney-client relationship and will not be treated as confidential. Any communication is not meant to be considered legal advice or representation. Please consult with an attorney that can assist with your specific legal matter.
Why Does the Relationship Between Lawyers and Clients Feel Harder than It Should?
Why DON’T clients LIKE lawyers?
Why do lawyers feel misunderstood?
Why does dissatisfaction exist for all parties?
These aren’t surface-level questions.
Clients don’t trust what they’re paying for and lawyers don’t feel understood for the work they’re doing and then both sides walk away frustrated.
What’s actually driving the disconnect between lawyers and clients?
- Is it the cost?
- Is it beliefs?
- Or is it something less obvious — shaped over time by assumptions, experiences and the way this relationship has been defined?
A $10,000 Gucci purse doesn’t usually spark the same reaction as a $10,000 legal bill. So, is it really about the cost — or is it about how value is understood? Are hopes too high, or have they simply been reinforced long enough to feel justified?
Simina examines how situations develop between lawyers and the people they represent — where and when communication breaks down, expectations diverge and perception replaces reality.
Her approach doesn’t take sides. It challenges norms, questions long-standing narratives and looks directly at the tension that defines how these encounters unfold.
Because the question isn’t just who is right. It’s what’s TRUE — and why we avoid asking it.
Why Ask Simina?
Lawyers are looking for something too — fewer sleepless nights, fewer breakdowns in communication and fewer situations that escalate before they can be resolved.
And Simina is looking at what happens in between.
Not from the outside, but within the dynamic itself — where expectations, pressure and interpretation begin to shape the experience on both sides.
Because the issue isn’t just cost and it most certainly is not just outcomes. It’s how situations are understood, and how responsibility is assigned — or avoided.
Simina explores how disagreements form, how beliefs shift and how both lawyers and clients contribute to the outcomes they experience — with the goal of creating more clarity and a more workable relationship.
What Simina Observes
Simina looks at the truths, observations and responsibilities in a system where things can be misinterpreted, such as:
- How lawyers are perceived and where that perception comes from.
- How individuals understand their role and where that breaks down.
- How interpretations, communication and responsibility shape the final result.
- How assumptions reinforce confusion.
About Simina
Simina Gentry is an attorney, legal scholar, and law professor (if time allows) examining what’s actually happening between lawyers and the people they represent.
Her work looks at the disconnects that occur during the legal process — how they form, and how outlooks shape the way all parties experience a matter.
She is not providing legal advice, and she is not approaching this from one side or the other. She is asking:
- What can be done for clients to feel more in control of their matter and have more transparency?
- What can be done for lawyers to have a more balanced lifestyle?
- Where is the responsibility?
- What is assumed?
- What is actually true?
Through her writing and speaking, Simina breaks down the assumptions and labels that shape how legal work is navigated and how the relationship can be driven into the abyss of unfortunate breakdowns and disagreements between lawyers and clients.
This isn’t a partnership between Lawyers and Clients — it’s more like ice-skating around each other. Simina believes that distance is unnecessary, and avoidable.
About Simina
Simina Gentry is an attorney, legal scholar, and law professor (if time allows) examining what’s actually happening between lawyers and the people they represent.
Her work looks at the disconnects that occur during the legal process — how they form, and how outlooks shape the way all parties experience a matter.
She is not providing legal advice, and she is not approaching this from one side or the other. She is asking:
- What can be done for clients to feel more in control of their matter and have more transparency?
- What can be done for lawyers to have a more balanced lifestyle?
- Where is the responsibility?
- What is assumed?
- What is actually true?
Through her writing and speaking, Simina breaks down the assumptions and labels that shape how legal work is navigated and how the relationship can be driven into the abyss of unfortunate breakdowns and disagreements between lawyers and clients.
This isn’t a partnership between Lawyers and Clients — it’s more like ice-skating around each other. Simina believes that distance is unnecessary, and avoidable.
Ask Simina
What does your client actually want?
Not the version written in a brief.
The one underneath it.
Submit a question or share a situation you’re navigating with Simina. Selected submissions may be explored or addressed based on relevance and theme.
Legal disclaimer: We thank you for suggesting topics that you find relevant and which will be reviewed as part of our efforts to write and speak about the issues that lawyers and clients are facing day to day. We do not provide legal representation or legal advice to anyone. Visitors understand that by contacting us or submitting this form or using this website there is no attorney client relationship. This is advertisement material. The information you obtain on this website, videos, newsletters, other communications, or other advertising materials is not nor is it intended to be legal advice.
Suggestions, questions, or feedback should not be sent as a request for legal advice because Simina will not provide any legal advice. Please do not send confidential or time-sensitive information as such communications do not establish an attorney-client relationship and will not be treated as confidential. Any communication is not meant to be considered legal advice or representation. Please consult with an attorney that can assist with your specific legal matter.